You’re looking for a girl? Great! Let’s get started. Remember that finding a girl is not about following a magic formula. Mixing the right ingredients, with a little patience and charm is more like cooking. Read more now on personal growth.

 

Be yourself (seriously).

It’s probably something you’ve heard a thousand times before, but it is true. Authenticity attracts. Do not try to pretend to be someone that you aren’t just to impress others. Own it if you’re a geek! Let your passion for sports shine through. It’s not worth pretending to be someone else.

Confidence Booster

Confidence is the key. Confidence is important. You don’t have to be James Bond confident, but you do need to believe in yourself. Make eye contact and speak clearly. These small changes will boost your confidence.

Get out there

There aren’t many people who binge-watch Netflix at home (though that’s tempting). Join groups or clubs that you are interested in — book clubs, hiking clubs, whatever tickles your fancy. You’ll be able to meet others who have similar interests.

Listen More Than You Speak

Listen actively when you meet someone interesting. Listening is important to people. They love to talk about themselves. Ask them questions and be curious about their passions and life.

Humor Can Go a Long way

Humor can help you break the ice more quickly than anything else. Even if you aren’t naturally funny, light-hearted jokes and playful teasing will work.

Dress Well

It’s not necessary to wear designer clothing, but being presentable can help you make a great first impression. Fitting clothes can also boost your self-confidence.

You Can Learn From Rejection

It hurts, but rejection is part of the process. Do not take rejection personally, or let it discourage you from trying again. Each “no,” brings you closer towards a “yes.”

Online Dating Apps

Dating apps are a common way to meet new people in the digital age. Choose from Tinder, Hinge, or Bumble! Create a profile that is engaging with photos that show different aspects of your personality and include something interesting in your biography.

Make Her Feel Special

Show her that she is special, but without being overly enthusiastic. Pay attention to the little things she says about herself and compliment her honestly.

Communication Openly

Honesty is really the best policy. You should be honest about your expectations in a partner, but not too aggressively.

Take it Slow

Rushing something usually ends in disaster. Allow the relationship to develop over time, rather than forcing it.

Now go and do your best! Remember, practice makes perfect — or at least brings you closer to perfection each time!